Haitian Women...the Reason For Low Turn Out At Parties

Promoters are complaining that it is very hard to have a good turn out at our parties...the djs the same thing...

This is one of the biggest reasons for the drop...

Men are complaining they don't go to Haitian venues or parties anymore because Haitian women are rude and anti-social...they don't interact with them at the party, they refuse to dance e "yo maletve"...asking them to dance is like asking them for sex...therefore the men end up at "talibans"...or to American or Caribbean clubs...

To the contrary, when they go to non-Haitian clubs, the women are friendly, they'll dance with them have a good time and call it the night...

The purpose of going out is to mingle, meet new friends, network and interact...You find none of that when you go to a Haitian function.

I have to admit...the Haitian brothers do have a point...

yeah man I dunno wazup with them Haitian Gials asking them to dance is like asking them for sex for real, even saying hi to them, is like cussing at them

well I go to Gothic clubs anyway, i found haitian parites or bal Sux

I'm not even Haitian, but I thought was kind of funny.

OK ... looks like Haitian gals owes us a comment on this topic! Where is The Member Of The Year when you need her?!?!?!????

Regards,

yeah man where she at lol i think she gonna have alot to say about that lol

she probably read it already and still thinking on a good coment lol

It looks like Caramela hasn't logged in for 10 days. But she still might have read this. Oh, and where has Psy been, I haven't heard from her in ages.

OKKK...well I'm not trying to defend the Haitian females over here but I think that all or most Haitian women are rude... I mean of course you're going to find some that are but at the same time, I know that when I go to a Haitian club or american or carribean I don't really dance too much with guys out of respect for my man. What you guys don't realize is that some females that go to these clubs do have a man and don't feel confortable dancing with another guy...it's just a girls' night sometimes (Hint: Girls only admitted in the crew..lol) and we just want to have a few drinks...dance a lil bit and then bounce. Guys don't know how to ask a lady how to dance anymore...they think that they could just pull your arm or something...that's a no no in my book...now if you ask me nicely then you have more a chance to get a yes (maybe..lol...) But I have got to side with guys as well...some women are just plain rude, no matter how nice the guy is, they just don't give a f**k and that's sad considering that most of them are not all that in my book. But I think that you can get that kind of treatment from American clubs too, women are very selective there...well the ones I go to anyway...on the other hand, the carribean clubs, the women tend to be a whole lot loose, sometimes a lil bit too loose which is making me think of a carribean club that I went to with my boyfriend and this girl was downright raunchy and disguting, she basically ended up f**king two guys at the same time in the middle of the dance floor, now let someone have told me that story I would have said that they're lying but my poor eyes witnessed this this......I'm speechless, but guys let me ask you that question: is that kind of girl that you're looking for? I mean she literally danced with almost every guy in the club.

depends how she dances ... some dances are more acceptable then others

But yeah, I agree wth you! Thank you for your input!

regards,

Well, sometimes it depends on the guys approach as well.

There have been times, where the way a man has asked me to dance made me turn him down, (overly rude/cocky) and other times it could be his appearance.
I dont always have to be physically attracted to someone in order to dance with them, but I do take cleaniness into consideration before I head to the dancefloor with them.

But to be honest I really dont like the idea of going to "Balles" or even to clubs without a male date, and dancing with a whole bunch of different random guys...
I remember I did that once a few years ago, and by the time I agreed to dance with a 3rd guy, I was already feeling all icky and smelled like the previous 2 guys' cologne and sweat. BLEH!
I felt so cheap.... never again!

However, I have seen some pretty dispicable turn-downs by women from men who really came at them correct.. but they still rejected them for whatever reason.

I know this haitian girl, who made sure she looked her absolute VERY best before she headed out to a nightclub JUST to "turn ugly guys down".
She actually admitted it was fun.

You see ... being "bad" is not so easy!

regards,