Pleasing A Woman

I think if you're in a relationship with a woman (not a chicken head), you will have to be somewhat educated sexually if you are to keep her around.

Often times people confuse good sex with love making. Off course when you just meet someone good sex is more important than anything else, but whatever you did to give her good sex will not continue to work forever.

You will need to get creative and that's where love-making comes into play. And as the term suggests, love must be present in the relationship for love-making to take place.

But the problem is, some people, especially if you grow up in a third world community, aren't sexually educated.

Let's talk or discuss the importance of being sexually educated in order to be able to make love properly.

We all know a guy who's just a horny freak will not be able to make love. He'll always want to get the d!ck in there and whack a few jabs and squirt. End of the story.

Let's talk about love making and sexual education.

married ten years now so this definitely apply to me, go on am all ears.

Why does it need to be one or the other other? A horny freak can still give good lovin'. Besides i think that getting hung up on the terminologies and technicalities more then on the need to please the other partner is a big mistake. As you said making love is none other then sex with someone you love and loving someone is about doing whatever it takes to put a smile on the other person's face. But, suppose you love someone with every fiber of your being, know all the positions of the kama sutra yet find no enjoyment in sex? Wouldnt you want a freak then? I say give me a freakazoid over a frigid bore anytime. At least the freak knows where to stick it, is eager to learn and is ready for the ride. The way i look at it, you cant go wrong if your aim is to see the other person "get off".

Before I could even get to it, you had to ask the question. So here's what I see as someone who's sexually educated.

Someone who has emmancipated himself from the urge of testosterone. Instead that person uses the testetorone with control and precision to achieve sexual ends, whether that be a f@ck or a love-making session.

Sexual education comes naturally to most men who've had all the rite-of-passage. If you missed some of these stages in your life, you may find yourself sexually uneducated and you will find yourself not being able to control yourself in the presence of a p@ssy.

You hear the sacrifices that some guys make just to get a piece of @ss, you know they are not sexually educated.

I hope I explained it adequately enough.

That's what you call [bleep] whipped..lol

Anyway, i was totally unaware that men had to go through "rite of passages". That is news to me being that i have no brothers, very distant cousins in the literal sense of the word and one who was a 40 year old virgin.

But, from a woman's point of view, i think it is hot when a man will do anything to get in a woman's panties. Perhaps you see it as being sexually uneducated but i view it as flattering. That kind of behavior coming from a man says that who she is, what she has is special and he would go the distance to get it because it is valuable to him. If only women could see themselves that way, perhaps they would not be in such a hurry to give it up.

I am not too sure what this rite of passage is exaclty but if it involves "screwing around", using women, I believe that is a repulsive and useless rite because in time, eventually their will be a "pussay" that you will find worthy of making sacrifices for and you will gladly make those sacrifices to get to it.